Possessing good discernment is super important here on the Earth.
If you see things clearly, you are able to make better choices then.
Illusion of the EGO causes you feel like there are no options in your life. But truth is – there is always numerous possibilities for all, and numerous choices that could be done. This implicates further that choices are massively important for someone’s life.
Also, decisions are necessary here since one of the common lessons here for all involved is the lesson in RESPONSIBILITY. Each decision creates a specific outcome and results. It is your spiritual responsibility to make good choices and to say yes or no when it is necessary and to understand that all that happened is your responsibility.
This leads me to the subject of discernment of various types of people in your life. This is not labeling people but just RECOGNITION of their current energies which reflect through their behavior.
It is not for judging people (people usually confusing this), I can still love you while not having you as a best friend/lover in my life. I say NO to your behavior. Your vibration is currently toxic for me, but maybe in the future if you are healthier our cooperation is possible. Who knows. But for now, it is my responsibility to make healthier choices for myself.
Here are some examples of toxic people or toxic energy that people could be immersed in. So, it is very substantial to recognize that and say NO and to understand that it is your birthright and also spiritual responsibility to do so.
ENERGY DRAINER – when you are around those people, you just don’t feel good, they make you feel down for no reason. They are just so negative that you require time after hanging out with them to recover. You literally feel drained. They feed on your willingness to listen and care for them leaving you exhausted. They literary use your good nature against you. Maybe you cannot say exactly what you have discussed and what happened, but you definitely feel tired after them.
THE FAKE COMPLIMENTER – evidently, they give you fake compliments, and also puts you in uncomfortable situations. They in general terms, are lacking in empathy. Speak usually too much and too laud. Give you compliments for no reason, in the middle of your talk, just to confuse you and makes you unpleasant. They like to play with other people due to lack of empathy. Have high opinion of themselves. Why is this dangerous? Because behind that behavior is hidden gain: sex, advice, training, financial prosperity, career advancement, etc.
THE PESSIMIST – skies are always dark for those people; all is nonsense, everybody are bad guys, there is no justice, never is going to be better and life is for nothing. They feel good only if put you down. They are always focused on terriblest things to happen which makes them stuck or unwilling to take any risks in life, which is necessary to progress and move forward. Due to all of that they create low self-esteem and insecurity. It is also reflected on physical aspect of the person creating further anxiety, depression, sleep disorders, hostility, high blood pressure, and heart disease.
THE CRITICIZER – They only care for themselves and tries to talk you out of your dreams. They do not like many things, for each person they have something bad to point out and critic. Criticize every move that you make and make you feel like you can’t do anything right. Criticism makes them feel superior. It is dangerous because it may look like perfect sense and very logical observation coming from criticizers, but the feeling they create in you is extremely negative.
THE MANIPULATOR – sometimes hard to recognize at first, but they are control freaks. They start panicking and get bitterly angry when things do not go as they wish, even for minor things like wrong coffee in the restaurant and similar. They pretend to be nice to you but could be easily pissed off in front of you toward other people or even you. Huge topic around manipulators but this is in short.
THE VICTIM – they always blame other for their misfortune or do not take responsibility for their behavior. It is always somebody else who hurt them, insulted them and they are never responsible or aware of their behavior. Usually, those people are by age very mature (per example in their 40 ties) and still they are offended by “mom said this or that.” Those people are looking for drama and attention-seeking. Victims lack self-awareness and they do not admit their faults. They are also very selfish, and you are taking part in their play by creating an emotional reaction and feeling pity for them. When comes to argues, you can notice that they argue illogically and dismiss advices. Beside all of that – they are super demanding. Me, me, me.
Start to notice, not to blame or judge but to make healthier choices for yourself if you seek better things in your life in general.
